Explicitly You
For When Boudoir Is Too Tame
You’ve been to other photography websites.
You scrolled through the soft lighting and the lace and the tasteful silhouettes, and somewhere in the scrolling you felt it — that quiet deflation of realizing this isn’t quite it. This isn’t you. You want something more honest than that. More specific. More true.
You want photographs that don’t flinch.
That’s what this is.
Explicitly You is where mIsFiTs Like ME does its most intimate work — sessions built for the people who already know that boudoir is a starting point, not a destination. The clients who come here aren’t looking for permission to be sensual. They’re looking for a photographer who can hold the full weight of who they are without looking away.
That photographer exists. You found him.
“You want photographs that don’t flinch.
That’s what this is.”
This is not about shock value.
Explicit work here is approached the way all work is approached here — with craft, with care, with reverence for the person in front of the lens, and with the deep understanding that what you want to see of yourself matters. The Quiet Math you’ve been doing against yourself — the running tally of too much and not enough — stops at the studio door.
What you’ll find on the other side is Adsit. Presence. A witness who doesn’t flinch and doesn’t judge and doesn’t ask you to be anything other than exactly, completely, explicitly you.
‘ Sloane
“I’ve worked with plenty of photographers, but I chose an ‘explicitly you’ session because I didn’t want someone who just documented the scene, I wanted someone who understood the power behind it.”
Who finds their way here:
Some arrive knowing exactly what they want. Others know only that they’re tired of feeling like their desires need to be softened before they’re acceptable. Both are welcome. Both are right on time.
People who understand that the body as subject is one of the oldest traditions in visual art, and who are ready to experience what it feels like to be seen that clearly.
People who understand that the body as subject is one of the oldest traditions in visual art, and who are ready to experience what it feels like to be seen that clearly
Queer, trans, non-binary, and gender-expansive people who need a photographer who genuinely gets it, not one who tolerates it.
Queer, trans, non-binary, and gender-expansive people who need a photographer who genuinely gets it, not one who tolerates it.
People who live the lifestyle and want it documented with the same seriousness and consent-consciousness they bring to it themselves.
And for the rest of my beautiful mIsFiTs — the delightfully awkward, the still-healing, the still-becoming, and the wildly, wonderfully unapologetic — you belong here too.
And then there are the ones who don’t fit any of those categories. The ones who couldn’t find the right search term because nobody had named the thing they needed yet. The ones who found this page and felt, for the first time, like the photography world had finally
built a room for them.
You’re allowed to be here. You always were.
How it works:
Every Explicitly You session begins with a conversation. Not a form — a conversation. We talk about what you want to see, how you want to feel, and what Sacred Authenticity looks like for you specifically. Boundaries are set with care. Consent is active throughout. The session moves at your pace.
All sessions are fully compliant with 18 U.S. Code §2257. Your images are yours — nothing is shared, published, or used without a separately signed release. Many clients keep their work entirely private. That is not just accepted here. It is protected here.
The session: The mIsFiT Commission — $1,500. Includes pre-session consultation with styling concierge service, hair and makeup artistry, same-day reveal, and your Your First Chapter book. All artwork is hand-retouched and includes matching high-resolution digital files.
Heirloom albums from $2,000. Wall art from $1,500. Content creation packages available for creators and sex workers.
“…because your authenticity
is sacred here.”